tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post2851664395581305950..comments2023-12-14T00:26:40.462-07:00Comments on Submissive Sanctuary: Conversations From the Past Lead to Realizations of TodayStormhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-45918096652058246852012-10-27T21:19:01.852-06:002012-10-27T21:19:01.852-06:00gg,
me being all over the place like that (which I...gg,<br />me being all over the place like that (which I almost always am), drives me crazy!<br />Yet as you say, they hold the same line. Wish I could too.<br /><br />I don't know how they know what to do before they have done it. Do you want to ask, or should I lol. <br />Though I'm not sure that I would receive a very satisfactory answer...Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-3140369811473348962012-10-27T21:14:57.994-06:002012-10-27T21:14:57.994-06:00sunnygirl
wise advice that I'm still trying to...sunnygirl<br />wise advice that I'm still trying to learn how to follow.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-30280465441879845002012-10-27T21:13:51.527-06:002012-10-27T21:13:51.527-06:00tori,
it really is much easier in theory. Practice...tori,<br />it really is much easier in theory. Practice however...<br /><br />At least your doubts are consistent! Mine change in less time than it takes me to brush my teeth.<br />Now the doubts I had earlier seem absolutely ridiculous. And I have gravitated back to the other end of the spectrum. I'm not sure it's good to hop around like that...Trying to kick the habit.<br /><br />And yes, it does keep a blog going doesn't it lol.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-87959053654829937582012-10-27T21:09:59.267-06:002012-10-27T21:09:59.267-06:00Kitty,
I have had problems with that for a very lo...Kitty,<br />I have had problems with that for a very long time. Okay, pretty much for as long as I can remember lol. <br />I'm hoping it's out-growable?<br /><br />I could settle for putting out less posts...Seems like a decent trade lol.<br /><br />Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-8868536166044777242012-10-27T21:07:38.890-06:002012-10-27T21:07:38.890-06:00Bas,
I do think that tori makes a very good point ...Bas,<br />I do think that tori makes a very good point about how much more difficult that is in practice.<br /><br />Though, I think that for me, the difficulty lies in not fully trusting that control. Which is beginning to feel very silly. And rather outdated lol.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-59120164521767499112012-10-27T21:05:21.755-06:002012-10-27T21:05:21.755-06:00faerie,
I think that you are right about the need ...faerie,<br />I think that you are right about the need to define.<br /><br />I think the doubts lessen over time. I'm waiting to see if they disappear completely. <br />If I could even just stick to doubts on one end of the spectrum without jumping back and forth...Would be a step lol.<br /><br />You are definitely not the only one.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-1250406025478483342012-10-27T14:13:51.830-06:002012-10-27T14:13:51.830-06:00Those were the same two exact conditions my husban...Those were the same two exact conditions my husband set in the beginning - i had to trust him to be in control of whatever i was and we became, and he would not tolerate my becoming in any way less than i was/am. He has not budged - in spite of the fact that i flit and dart and sometimes bolt in panic - all over the place - he is inexorable - right down that same line he set out on. How do they do that - and how do they know exactly what to do before they've ever done it at all? greengirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-54589392760415896492012-10-27T12:33:35.332-06:002012-10-27T12:33:35.332-06:00Live in the present. As the saying goes the past ...Live in the present. As the saying goes the past is gone and the future is yet to be. Enjoy NOW-tomorrow is promised to no one so why worry about stuff that may never be.Aimless Ramblinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00720714875762344391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-40400320959774003812012-10-27T11:53:04.518-06:002012-10-27T11:53:04.518-06:00Ahh i get the what if? scenarios running through m...Ahh i get the what if? scenarios running through my head and sometimes they eat away at me, its easy to say why worry about what you have no control over but its a lot more difficult to put into practice.<br /><br />I try not to spend time worrying over issues that may never happen, but i do, where you have that doubt because of initating ttwd in an established relationship, my doubt is will i be able to reach the bossmans level? am i enough to sate his needs? etc<br /><br />Sure he tells me its not for me to concern myself with but i do, its silly i know it is, but i do think its normal and its also very scary but thats because its perhaps the element of the unknown...how far will i go? how far will he take me? etc etc<br /><br />Anyway im just an overthinker and i dont think thats something thats going to stop anytime soon otherwise hell what would we all blog about lol<br /><br />x<br /><br /><br /><br />torihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-52572076382248701592012-10-27T10:38:23.645-06:002012-10-27T10:38:23.645-06:00Enjoying what you have now is one of the most diff...Enjoying what you have now is one of the most difficult things for me to do. Even when I know I have it all and I am very lucky, I can't help but look for the other shoe, or the possible way it could go awry.<br /><br />We really need to stop that. (Or not - since it makes for some great blog posts.)Kitty the Submissive Wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00185859722963938064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-63103091633842280712012-10-27T10:25:00.863-06:002012-10-27T10:25:00.863-06:00Isn't it an important part of the whole setup,...Isn't it an important part of the whole setup, that you don't need to have fears because he controls it?Bashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15378333708912059004noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-38310001848319950702012-10-27T09:18:58.887-06:002012-10-27T09:18:58.887-06:00Maybe the need to define is just an attempt to bet...Maybe the need to define is just an attempt to better understand? At least that's what I've settled on as I've gone through my own identity crisis about our dynamic. It's not comforting to hear that the doubts will likely continue to occur, but it is comforting to know I'm not the only one who experiences them :)faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.com