tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post310054989961732748..comments2023-12-14T00:26:40.462-07:00Comments on Submissive Sanctuary: That First TimeStormhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-58763266869638685642013-11-13T16:51:10.910-07:002013-11-13T16:51:10.910-07:00Thank you, Lea. Nice to see you!
I agree on the i...Thank you, Lea. Nice to see you!<br /><br />I agree on the importance of accepting oneself and their current level. Now if only that came a bit easier...Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-74815662420209045692013-11-12T20:54:14.883-07:002013-11-12T20:54:14.883-07:00This is one of my favorite posts. EVER.
I think t...This is one of my favorite posts. EVER.<br /><br />I think that accepting oneself, ones currentl level of submission, even as part of that greater journey is crucial. <br /><br />As I've been feeling like I want/need more - its a good reminder to take things slow and think on how far we've come. Enjoy now. Enjoy those firsts.Leahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17213567388808206135noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-45553453116848556102013-11-06T16:33:36.521-07:002013-11-06T16:33:36.521-07:00Thank you Giles.
Thank you Giles.<br />Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-67894186698883517532013-11-06T15:52:28.999-07:002013-11-06T15:52:28.999-07:00Perfect! This is how I feel.
"The first tim...Perfect! This is how I feel. <br /><br />"The first time he does something you really really fucking hate. And you discover that you liked it just because you hated it, but the world doesn't end. <br />There is a first for each and every time your response to a command becomes automatic."<br /><br />Beautiful writing too!Giles Englishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06078027627281038866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-67501049684484056572013-11-06T14:26:40.344-07:002013-11-06T14:26:40.344-07:00Dancinbarez,
so true!
Thank you.Dancinbarez,<br />so true!<br />Thank you.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-54340796313115489992013-11-06T11:56:01.312-07:002013-11-06T11:56:01.312-07:00Very good post indeed lil. The firsts are great bu...Very good post indeed lil. The firsts are great but building off of them is even better.dancingbarezhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05159330409168648147noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-90394527876422736672013-11-06T07:36:22.482-07:002013-11-06T07:36:22.482-07:00Roz,
Thank you!
I think that accepting that we are...Roz,<br />Thank you!<br />I think that accepting that we are always learning can be helpful--because we aren't aiming for the end of the road, we're aiming for an amazing journey.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-75029327638387995822013-11-06T07:34:50.887-07:002013-11-06T07:34:50.887-07:00tori,
lol yea, not all of the firsts are awesome.
...tori,<br />lol yea, not all of the firsts are awesome.<br /><br />I think that is one of the awesome things about ttwd--there seem to be endless opportunities for growth and learning. Though, I admit that there are days which I could do with a little bit less learning...Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-23325135461869539622013-11-06T07:33:17.962-07:002013-11-06T07:33:17.962-07:00Thank you FD.Thank you FD.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-27411253428129249722013-11-06T07:33:00.146-07:002013-11-06T07:33:00.146-07:00Thank you MDH.
The wonderful thing about those fir...Thank you MDH.<br />The wonderful thing about those firsts being over though, is that they pave the road for other wonderful experiences.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-54578307063453959322013-11-06T07:32:12.184-07:002013-11-06T07:32:12.184-07:00Misty,
I think that we all spend our share of time...Misty,<br />I think that we all spend our share of time in that place of wanting it all NOW.<br /><br />That does make sense. Maybe trying to look at each experience along the way as a wonderful and unique experience that contributes to the whole would be helpful? Dunno, patience has never been my strong point!<br /><br />Ooh, I like you perspective with the marathon! Now I gotta go think...Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-30223421481031373562013-11-06T07:19:34.294-07:002013-11-06T07:19:34.294-07:00Subrina,
Thank you! Enjoy those firsts.Subrina,<br />Thank you! Enjoy those firsts.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-28309691066193873902013-11-06T07:18:37.709-07:002013-11-06T07:18:37.709-07:00Bleuame,
Thank you!
You summed it up so well...Ap...Bleuame,<br />Thank you!<br /><br />You summed it up so well...Apparently an entire page was unnecessary!Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-78545659543320888162013-11-06T02:53:35.800-07:002013-11-06T02:53:35.800-07:00Such a great post Lil, and so well said. I agree,...Such a great post Lil, and so well said. I agree, ttwd is a journey and I don't think we every stop learning and experiencing those firsts. I agree too that though we may repeat experiences, each experience is unique.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-15718735647388629602013-11-06T02:30:29.478-07:002013-11-06T02:30:29.478-07:00Oh and what a journey it is, the firsts are amazin...Oh and what a journey it is, the firsts are amazing..ok sometimes not lol, but each step along the way is learning..and i believe no-one should ever stop learning, about themselves, each other, might change directions a few times but as long as both are wanting to go in the same direction thats all that matters.<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-74413637243681618782013-11-05T19:15:33.542-07:002013-11-05T19:15:33.542-07:00There was a lot of good insight. Yes, this lifesty...There was a lot of good insight. Yes, this lifestyle is a journey and each step along the way should be treasured.<br /><br />FD Florida Domhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08785387941624829985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-39211114459139023012013-11-05T16:00:49.619-07:002013-11-05T16:00:49.619-07:00This is a great read for us "newcomers" ...This is a great read for us "newcomers" to submission... as I am experiencing a lot of "firsts" myself... and now, as I read this, feeling kind of disappointed that they may never be repeated or felt again... :(MDH36Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14928803361218800859noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-16778414796767729212013-11-05T15:01:24.797-07:002013-11-05T15:01:24.797-07:00I need to read this everyday. I 'really' w...I need to read this everyday. I 'really' want it all now. <br /><br />I don't know why it's so hard to realize, to get where I want to be, that it is going to take time, and learning, and tears, and sweat, and communication, and, hopefully, lots and lots of kink :), to get there. I mean I know that's what it takes, but I still have moments where I don't understand why I can't have it all now. Does that make sense?<br /><br />Maybe I've been thinking about this all wrong. <br /><br />When I decided to run in a half marathon I never thought "I know the furthest I've ran is 2 miles but I'll go out and run 13 tomorrow," that would've been crazy. I'm glad that I trained for as long as I did because I would have missed out on what I gained during those runs (lots of self growth, reflecting, etc) and it 'prepared' me for the big day. Why would TTWD be any different?! <br /><br />Wow, sorry, I really didn't expect to say all of that, lol. Anyway, thanks for the post, it has given me something to think about.Mistyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07931554793023459482noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-71135709189394824962013-11-05T09:49:30.463-07:002013-11-05T09:49:30.463-07:00Wow this was intense and beautifully said. Since w...Wow this was intense and beautifully said. Since we are just starting our journey we have had a few firsts....but im looking forward to many more firsts with him.His_Subrinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10324900827603758904noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-37576850765831887392013-11-05T08:45:10.273-07:002013-11-05T08:45:10.273-07:00This post is scary good, lil.
That depth and inti...This post is scary good, lil. <br />That depth and intimacy can reach a place where it is the norm and not a one time feeling place, but it does take time of learning from and experiencing all those firsts. Bleue D'âmehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12945301989408243513noreply@blogger.com