tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post3955925356167611280..comments2023-12-14T00:26:40.462-07:00Comments on Submissive Sanctuary: Why?Stormhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comBlogger21125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-47666328573866877612014-11-06T14:45:19.983-07:002014-11-06T14:45:19.983-07:00Jon,
I'm musing...It will probably turn into 2...Jon,<br />I'm musing...It will probably turn into 2 posts, depending on how rambly I feel, lol.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-24822051485595551782014-11-06T08:06:05.979-07:002014-11-06T08:06:05.979-07:00'rescue me over and over again to prove you re...'rescue me over and over again to prove you really want me'<br /><br />oh! *light bulb goes on over head*<br /><br />Yes! Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03012486777344302375noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-53965571162948968042014-11-05T15:42:08.171-07:002014-11-05T15:42:08.171-07:00What Blondie said ... and what you replied. Not n...What Blondie said ... and what you replied. Not necessarily a response personal to your relationship (unless you want) but to the issue of the D's responsibilities. JonAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07111109586526724959noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-67859419430689509092014-11-05T12:04:21.560-07:002014-11-05T12:04:21.560-07:00River wild,
that whole struggling against what we ...River wild,<br />that whole struggling against what we want and why do we do it, seems to be the submissive version of "which came first, the chicken or the egg" If I ever figure it out, I'll yell it from the rooftops!Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-29619645143298641942014-11-05T12:01:55.994-07:002014-11-05T12:01:55.994-07:00gg,
sigh* the line between swimming and drowning s...gg,<br />sigh* the line between swimming and drowning seems to very thin sometimes...<br />and yes...We will come out this time too.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-13976094462181507622014-11-05T12:00:43.523-07:002014-11-05T12:00:43.523-07:00Blondie,
I have thought about your question, and I...Blondie,<br />I have thought about your question, and I think that I will probably end up doing a post in response.<br /><br />I do think that there are times when strong emotion comes off as pain because that is what speaks most clearly. This was written while he was away, so it's...Empty feeling.<br /><br />I'll continue to muse on your question.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-62900143686715322812014-11-05T11:49:11.620-07:002014-11-05T11:49:11.620-07:00Roz,
thank you! It's nice to not be the only &...Roz,<br />thank you! It's nice to not be the only "questioner".Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-52717047055937951612014-11-05T11:48:21.960-07:002014-11-05T11:48:21.960-07:00FD,
is it terribly annoying that I can acknowledge...FD,<br />is it terribly annoying that I can acknowledge that and still question it?Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-41074351179067402972014-11-05T11:46:47.287-07:002014-11-05T11:46:47.287-07:00Thank you, abby.Thank you, abby.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-87938802927320107402014-11-05T11:46:13.689-07:002014-11-05T11:46:13.689-07:00sunnygirl,
"hmmmmmm" isn't a word?!sunnygirl,<br />"hmmmmmm" isn't a word?!Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-65158921423067502832014-11-05T11:45:41.931-07:002014-11-05T11:45:41.931-07:00ksst,
Oh, I dunno--when there's no chocolate t...ksst,<br />Oh, I dunno--when there's no chocolate to be had, I do ask myself the chocolate question. Jk.<br /><br />I think that it does have a lot to do with it being outside of what we are told we should want...And maybe some of us (ahem) just always have to be questioning...Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-78716264773232757422014-11-05T11:43:51.676-07:002014-11-05T11:43:51.676-07:00mc kitten,
Sigh* Yea, he calls me Rapunzel because...mc kitten,<br />Sigh* Yea, he calls me Rapunzel because I seem to need that fight--rescue me over and over again to prove you really want me. I'm evolving slowly. Maybe... Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-3385861164620594562014-11-04T20:52:27.522-07:002014-11-04T20:52:27.522-07:00This thing we do, our dynamics that we have, are h...This thing we do, our dynamics that we have, are hard and sometimes scary. It really is the dependency thing, I think, that makes it so scary. Why is it so hard when it's what we want/need? I'm still trying to figure that one out. River Wildhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12914080438490765849noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-70138468137981289202014-11-04T19:47:58.677-07:002014-11-04T19:47:58.677-07:00I've been swimming (drowning) in the same sort...I've been swimming (drowning) in the same sort of why's recently. And lots of related why's and should I's and other quicksand. We always come out - him and me - with his help, with my courage, but we do, together. That makes me think we will this time too. You two, too - i bet. greengirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-29963896584007428792014-11-04T13:45:22.999-07:002014-11-04T13:45:22.999-07:00Okay, I have a question for you and I really hope ...Okay, I have a question for you and I really hope no offense is taken but that you can teach me something about this lifestyle. <br />I was always under the impression that the Dominant is supposed to care for his submissive, to know how to take care of her, how to make her feel safe and loved. And in return, the sub gives him herself, all of herself. She trusts him. But for some reason, with the pain and loneliness that you feel at times, I don't see that he is taking good care of you. Am I wrong about what I thought? Am I wrong about how I feel when I read your beautiful posts? You don't have to answer me if you choose not to. I will still be reading your very poetic and wonderful posts.Blondiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10990349853331249894noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-41105425848582884312014-11-04T02:50:59.526-07:002014-11-04T02:50:59.526-07:00Lil, I love how you wrote this. I think most of us...Lil, I love how you wrote this. I think most of us ask the same questions and can relate. It just is :)<br /><br />Hugs<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-53857718764296047192014-11-03T15:48:38.976-07:002014-11-03T15:48:38.976-07:00The quick answer is that it is what you want and n...The quick answer is that it is what you want and need. It is who you are. The way you were born. Enjoy it.<br /><br />FD Florida Domhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08785387941624829985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-4722806667455143482014-11-03T11:09:25.914-07:002014-11-03T11:09:25.914-07:00Wow....your writing just blows me away...we all ha...Wow....your writing just blows me away...we all have some of those same questions..or others....<br />hugs abbyabbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15842526901481062563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-68963740661310638892014-11-03T09:44:26.007-07:002014-11-03T09:44:26.007-07:00No words, just hmmmmm.No words, just hmmmmm.Aimless Ramblinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00720714875762344391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-88075732219038933732014-11-03T09:28:23.873-07:002014-11-03T09:28:23.873-07:00Some things just are. It is not like most people ...Some things just are. It is not like most people torment themselves for long over questions like<br />Why do I want to be married? <br />Why do I just love one person and not have 5 lovers?<br />Why do I want kids?<br />Why do I love chocolate so much?<br />Why must life have ups and downs and not just all ups? <br />Why do we tend to do that? <br />Maybe because it is not a given, it is outside of what most people want, and outside of what society is always telling us we should want? Is that where part of this comes from?<br />ancilla_kssthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10968994155747861194noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-6823310140531019532014-11-03T08:19:57.340-07:002014-11-03T08:19:57.340-07:00'Why I still fight so hard against the reins w...'Why I still fight so hard against the reins which make my life what it was made to be.'<br /><br />is it to know that they are there? and are strong enough to hold you? I *might* do something similar... *ahem*<br /><br />sometimes, I need it to be hard, I need there to be things I hate and fight against, because otherwise, it isn't real, it isn't worth fighting for or having, somehow.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03012486777344302375noreply@blogger.com