tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post4237128147893363251..comments2023-12-14T00:26:40.462-07:00Comments on Submissive Sanctuary: PerspectiveStormhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-11472523223029704172013-08-28T13:18:26.738-06:002013-08-28T13:18:26.738-06:00cd,
I do think that the greatest stride are often ...cd,<br />I do think that the greatest stride are often the ones which are so subtle that we barely even notice them until we look back...Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-39162561247820686372013-08-27T19:30:42.642-06:002013-08-27T19:30:42.642-06:00It happens in such soft and subtle ways, lil. It w...It happens in such soft and subtle ways, lil. It wasn't long ago that the word slave made my nose crinkle and my heart hammer. Now I gladly call him my Master and that word is like honey on my tongue. When you find the one, it all falls into place so perfectly that you don't even notice. <br /><br /><3<br />cdAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-26898021188829717762013-08-27T17:54:51.768-06:002013-08-27T17:54:51.768-06:00Roz,
thank you!
I think that things change a bit w...Roz,<br />thank you!<br />I think that things change a bit when one views it as being an approach to life as opposed to just a thing we do...Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-15437405974916022352013-08-27T17:54:02.389-06:002013-08-27T17:54:02.389-06:00Brigit,
D/s really is beautiful in the evolutionar...Brigit,<br />D/s really is beautiful in the evolutionary forms that it takes over time.<br /><br />It is nice to step back from time to time. It's a good reminder of where we are and what we have.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-67230285385652704182013-08-27T17:52:03.037-06:002013-08-27T17:52:03.037-06:00mamacrow,
rotf about the "Uber mature thing&q...mamacrow,<br />rotf about the "Uber mature thing"!<br /><br />Right, it has soo much to do with perspective, doesn't it? <br />I mean, "vanilla" is such a highly interpretive concept, that I have no clue what the answer to your question is! Except that it's one of those things that varies greatly.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-23267069275712266292013-08-27T17:47:51.604-06:002013-08-27T17:47:51.604-06:00tori,
Oh I do not laugh--doesn't everyone miss...tori,<br />Oh I do not laugh--doesn't everyone miss that short-lived time when they knew everything about something?<br /><br />I think that it really is about how it changes us, and yes lol, my fantasies did differ somewhat. Checking the mail sure as hell was not on the hot list...<br /><br />I like your thought about it being constant and everywhere. It makes a lot of sense to me.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-26628674690525871412013-08-27T17:44:13.672-06:002013-08-27T17:44:13.672-06:00Julia,
something about being so caught up in the f...Julia,<br />something about being so caught up in the forest that one can't see the trees I guess. Happens to me in many areas of life!Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-38836650808549797972013-08-27T17:43:32.170-06:002013-08-27T17:43:32.170-06:00Subrina,
Glad you enjoyed the analogy,
I often th...Subrina,<br />Glad you enjoyed the analogy,<br /><br />I often think that being attached to too many ideas about how ttwd Should be, prevents us from truly experiencing and enjoying what it Is. <br />When we realize that it's about what works for us as individuals and our relationships, we really become free to explore our potential and possibilities.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-34457211063386537282013-08-27T17:40:16.958-06:002013-08-27T17:40:16.958-06:00Misty,
The evolution of D/s is always an interesti...Misty,<br />The evolution of D/s is always an interesting experience. <br /><br />One of the things I'm working on, is accepting where I am when I am there--spending less time in "then", and more time in "now".<br />Yep, been working on it my whole life, and have yet to gain even a modicum of proficiency lol.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-54062593972743175102013-08-27T12:28:19.521-06:002013-08-27T12:28:19.521-06:00I can't get this post out of my mind. :) I thi...I can't get this post out of my mind. :) I think it's because I don't want to loose my limits but all the same I do know it could go there and that scares me... a lot.Mistyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07931554793023459482noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-8249412227522364072013-08-27T06:11:31.344-06:002013-08-27T06:11:31.344-06:00Great post Lil, Love your words about ttwd not bei...Great post Lil, Love your words about ttwd not being defined by actions alone, but can be a mindset and approach to life. So true.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-18166116045832236292013-08-26T21:22:14.636-06:002013-08-26T21:22:14.636-06:00Mamacrow...I agree. I think the definition of van...Mamacrow...I agree. I think the definition of vanilla is just as slippery as the definition of D/s or "kink". <br /><br />And lil...I like your image of dwelling in the shallow end of possibility. I think for most of us - our way of life in D/s just "is". Even if we name it later, the temperaments were always there. And over time, we perfect it and make it our.<br /><br />Daddy and I have discussed the impossibility of ever find someone else to fill each other's shoes. We read each other's needs so well.<br /><br />A good relationship is just that. But, it is nice to step back from time to time to admire it for what it is.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15831717334292672743noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-85750059268988943932013-08-26T15:55:58.322-06:002013-08-26T15:55:58.322-06:00I went off topic didnt i.....what i was trying to ...I went off topic didnt i.....what i was trying to say and failing at lol<br /><br />was, i think sometimes, its just happening around us, there is no 'big' revelation...because its constant, everywhere.<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-14035152450734276252013-08-26T14:51:28.319-06:002013-08-26T14:51:28.319-06:00I was going to write this uber mature thing about ...I was going to write this uber mature thing about perspective but my brain is stuck on your casual mention of enemas like a rabbit in headlights.<br /><br />ememas?! *squeeks* *runs way*<br /><br />so now should be when I say how tame WE are, except I recently saw a guide to spanking which made genitalia a huge big THING that should never be done unless fully discussed and safeword agreed and made it sound like this major league THING and having my pussy spanked is one of my favourte things, and I was like 'what'?!<br /><br />And then I thought - what is vanilla? Exactly? And were we ever it? I'm not convinced... way back when before the internet exploded and I started researching, we would have tonnes of fun with him bending me over things and take me quickly and roughly and he'd bind my wrists together with one of his ties, and..<br /><br />So I'm not sure, exactly, what vanilla is?<br /><br />mamacrowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16484565827023574347noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-4383443550629292202013-08-26T14:16:59.826-06:002013-08-26T14:16:59.826-06:00Sometimes lil..and dont laugh..i wish i could go b...Sometimes lil..and dont laugh..i wish i could go back to when i truely believed i knew it all...i did as well...i have posts to prove it! lol<br /><br />and then...well...bloody hell its not what i fantasised about it being, its not like i read about etc..i thought being a slave meant it was going to be all kinky sex and s/m....and sure its there but its not really about the physical stuff is it?<br /><br />its the way it makes us think, how it changes us within<br /><br />but yes your last sentence sums it up for me....<br /><br />its about how they say it is...<br /><br />and i dont know about you, but my ideas of what it should be like didnt match his lol<br /><br />x<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />torihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-83393764615062684232013-08-26T13:06:28.020-06:002013-08-26T13:06:28.020-06:00I agree, sometimes it takes me looking at it from ...I agree, sometimes it takes me looking at it from a different perspective to see just how amazing our relationship has been and is. Even with the bumps. Juliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08484811892132134437noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-8918497429531793292013-08-26T10:49:00.758-06:002013-08-26T10:49:00.758-06:00Hi Lil!
I have to agree with Misty....I am so new ...Hi Lil!<br />I have to agree with Misty....I am so new to this I don't ever see what you have in my future. Not saying that I don't want it, but we are just beginning. <br /><br />Personally I love what you have with Alpha. I'm not sure I want exactly what you guys have, but that is the great thing about TTWD, D/s or M/s....you make it what you want and what works for you. <br /><br />I loved the analogy you used. That was beautiful!<br /><br />Subrina <3His_Subrinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10324900827603758904noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-57777477584225591742013-08-26T09:55:18.533-06:002013-08-26T09:55:18.533-06:00I am so far from where you are that I think we may...I am so far from where you are that I think we may be on different planets, lol. I wonder if I would ever take that leap to your planet...Mistyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07931554793023459482noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-50403039747876938602013-08-26T09:37:45.333-06:002013-08-26T09:37:45.333-06:00sunnygirl,
none really--it's just neat to take...sunnygirl,<br />none really--it's just neat to take a step back and look at it through fresh eyes sometimes.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-1000018008233307862013-08-26T09:30:33.327-06:002013-08-26T09:30:33.327-06:00As long as you are both happy and both getting you...As long as you are both happy and both getting your needs met, what difference does it make what it is called?Aimless Ramblinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00720714875762344391noreply@blogger.com