tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post4790723074575375621..comments2023-12-14T00:26:40.462-07:00Comments on Submissive Sanctuary: The Humiliating Complexities of HumilityStormhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-45788815077304927752012-04-17T16:58:55.213-06:002012-04-17T16:58:55.213-06:00viemoira, thank you.viemoira, thank you.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-34026238037792417202012-04-17T16:51:40.738-06:002012-04-17T16:51:40.738-06:00wonderful post!wonderful post!viemoirahttp://cavernofthebeast.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-91679024854195318912012-04-12T08:04:56.106-06:002012-04-12T08:04:56.106-06:00Jake, you are quite welcome. And her post really i...Jake, you are quite welcome. And her post really is lovely isn't it.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-22455245396731244702012-04-11T19:39:42.489-06:002012-04-11T19:39:42.489-06:00You are right, lil--biddable's post that you l...You are right, lil--biddable's post that you linked to is outstanding. Thanks for sharing both it and your thoughts!Jakehttp://leathercuffsandsilkenbonds.com/tag/bondage-techniques/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-1845229513705700002012-04-10T12:46:31.652-06:002012-04-10T12:46:31.652-06:00It's all good, it keeps me from getting stuck ...It's all good, it keeps me from getting stuck :)faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-78011702470408266522012-04-10T09:11:50.302-06:002012-04-10T09:11:50.302-06:00tori, lol, apparently, the term subtle is also qui...tori, lol, apparently, the term subtle is also quite subjective.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-58411543161559960712012-04-10T09:10:31.019-06:002012-04-10T09:10:31.019-06:00jwenting,
Yes, as I said somewhere up top, it is a...jwenting,<br />Yes, as I said somewhere up top, it is a subjective experience that offers much temptation to keep upping the ante. And humiliation does come in many forms and fashions--once again an individual experience.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-44886117108075182642012-04-10T09:05:06.595-06:002012-04-10T09:05:06.595-06:00sin, thank you and you're welcome.
I change my...sin, thank you and you're welcome.<br />I change my blog more often than I would change my hair if I could. I have been called unreadable. Mostly for font, but I'm not sure the font was the only issue lol. Though if you want people to read what you write, taking those things into consideration is probably a good idea...Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-2696932807375684602012-04-10T09:01:52.633-06:002012-04-10T09:01:52.633-06:00mouse, I could see how that really affects the way...mouse, I could see how that really affects the way you express yourself and the thought you have to put into words before speaking. <br />I think it's a skill to write in third person, and your blog is one of the only ones where I have found it is well written and comes across clearly.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-70452371899254294642012-04-10T08:59:58.772-06:002012-04-10T08:59:58.772-06:00FD, I agree. It's one of those things that is ...FD, I agree. It's one of those things that is not for everyone. Just as individuals and their relationships are unique, so are what we need and enjoy.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-83078100430887572992012-04-10T08:59:16.950-06:002012-04-10T08:59:16.950-06:00tori,
thank you.
I agree, there's no substitu...tori,<br />thank you. <br />I agree, there's no substitute for knowing someone really well. Because those lines are so fine.<br />It is a complex thing that I could ramble on for ages about and barely scratch the surface of possibility.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-49308593581517180142012-04-10T08:56:49.095-06:002012-04-10T08:56:49.095-06:00dancingbarez, I think that humiliation is very muc...dancingbarez, I think that humiliation is very much about being pushed that little teensy bit too far. And yes, the line can be quite fine can't it.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-74082755404489180512012-04-10T08:55:58.358-06:002012-04-10T08:55:58.358-06:00faithful, you are quite welcome. Glad you find som...faithful, you are quite welcome. Glad you find something to identify with here.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-30914179576856396422012-04-10T08:55:22.448-06:002012-04-10T08:55:22.448-06:00faerie, thought provoking...I'm sorry!faerie, thought provoking...I'm sorry!Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-64045517316603301582012-04-10T02:15:32.860-06:002012-04-10T02:15:32.860-06:00Its this for me that sums up how humiliation is so...Its this for me that sums up how humiliation is so personal to the individual, i would not and could not handle going out in public wearing barely legal clothing and he would not expect me to...it wouldnt be subtle to me..it would be mortifying lol im not a fan of wearing scantily clad clothing in public.<br /><br />But the piss and verbal abuse....bring it on lol<br /><br />tori xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-12064565288175085532012-04-09T22:55:25.545-06:002012-04-09T22:55:25.545-06:00One should remember that what is humiliating to on...One should remember that what is humiliating to one person may not be so to another, and in time one's attitude can change so that less and less becomes humiliating.<br /><br />I think you're right in assuming that people get off on humiliating others (or trying to, see above, it's quite possible to make your sub do things you think is humiliating to them when the sub doesn't feel humiliated) because of the power over the other it displays.<br /><br />Humiliation of course doesn't have to be dirty, filthy, stuff like piss and scat play, verbal abuse.<br />It can be as subtle as displaying the sub in public in barely legal clothing, openly portraying their submissiveness to the dom(me). Especially to a new(ish) sub this is a big step in growing their submission.jwentinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03231225414960320582noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-79834879067355924042012-04-09T16:36:09.884-06:002012-04-09T16:36:09.884-06:00Very interesting post Lil, thanks.
I like your n...Very interesting post Lil, thanks. <br /><br />I like your new format better btw, it's much easier to read. <br /><br />-sinsinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00082648132476803815noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-91187170859104619872012-04-09T15:52:56.757-06:002012-04-09T15:52:56.757-06:00Lil,
Most people don't understand this, but ...Lil, <br /><br />Most people don't understand this, but the reason mouse speaks and writes in the third person was, in the beginning not about objectification, but about humiliation and humility. It changes the thought process, where you really must consider what you wish to convey and how to say it. <br /><br />Hugs,<br />mousemousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17837530120535693314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-67216686628938644232012-04-09T15:49:36.011-06:002012-04-09T15:49:36.011-06:00Yes, humiliation can be amazing but I think it var...Yes, humiliation can be amazing but I think it varies from couple to couple. What works for tori might not work for other couples. But it is an interesting topic to explore.<br /><br />FDFlorida Domhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08785387941624829985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-40220452417323569052012-04-09T14:38:15.067-06:002012-04-09T14:38:15.067-06:00Nice post
Humiliation really fascinates me becaus...Nice post<br /><br />Humiliation really fascinates me because its so complex and personal to the individual, what some may find humiliating others wont. Its something that my Master and i do a lot of we both enjoy it very much.<br /><br />I thrive on being humiliated which i know seems an odd thing to say, but its when i can completley let go and those times are amazing. I do enjoy being degraded as well and for me quite often the two go hand in hand together and its not had any negative impact on me as far as im aware lol<br /><br />I think the key to humiliation is the dominant knowing his sub very well, having the ability to get in their head and push buttons but also knowing when to stop to not let it get into potential damaging areas.<br /><br />I have lain on the bathroom floor covered in his piss and cum whilst he has stood over me telling me what a dirty stinking filthy bitch i am and i escape into my head...i float...and he has walked away leaving me like that for a period of time.<br /><br />For some that would be too much and i get that but i love it and at some point he will come back place me in the bath and wash me all the while talking to me...bringing me back to the now.<br /><br />He has said that what he gets from it is the sense of power, the control he has of taking me to those places, the pleasure he gets from seeing me let go and embracing how im being 'used' which is something i can only seen to achieve through humiliation...plus the sex during or afterwards is fantastic lol<br /><br />Degredation hmm well i can understand your distinction between the two and i agree but i do enjoy being torn down because i know he will put me back together again.<br /><br />It sounds like your enjoying exploring humiliation and i think it can be beneficial personally.<br /><br />tori xxtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-16399537950466650192012-04-09T13:53:47.160-06:002012-04-09T13:53:47.160-06:00I like the differentiation between humiliation and...I like the differentiation between humiliation and degradation, I would imagine for some the line between the two is rather fine. Sometimes I feel like I am being pushed a bit too far but we do benefit from it in the end.dancingbarezhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05159330409168648147noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-22246898419289102502012-04-09T13:42:53.980-06:002012-04-09T13:42:53.980-06:00Thanks lil- your posts really speak to me.
~fait...Thanks lil- your posts really speak to me.<br /><br />~faithfulfaithfulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00302360277876603758noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-29282927575744056692012-04-09T13:21:27.255-06:002012-04-09T13:21:27.255-06:00Another thought provoking post lil. What happens i...Another thought provoking post lil. What happens in a persons mind...yeah, been struggling with that one just a bit myself.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.com