tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post5877789669736092201..comments2023-12-14T00:26:40.462-07:00Comments on Submissive Sanctuary: Be Careful What You Wish ForStormhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comBlogger32125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-79974257345801333702013-10-02T12:07:07.834-06:002013-10-02T12:07:07.834-06:00Terpsichore,
it can be surprisingly difficult to d...Terpsichore,<br />it can be surprisingly difficult to decide what is something you really want, or as you said, something to dream.<br /><br />I love it when reality exceeds fantasy!Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-26155593013784740992013-10-02T10:28:55.142-06:002013-10-02T10:28:55.142-06:00There are aspects for my relationship in which rea...There are aspects for my relationship in which reality has exceeded my fantasy and then fantasies I know are meant to remain as such and whenever I wonder if that would work for me or him or us...I have to think really hard to know if it is what I really want or something I just want to dream and share about..so I like the "be careful what you wish for" :-)Terpsichorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13704408254742966076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-53244713280320915382013-10-02T07:18:38.529-06:002013-10-02T07:18:38.529-06:00His slut,
thank you.His slut,<br />thank you.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-80790267294629795652013-10-02T07:18:15.613-06:002013-10-02T07:18:15.613-06:00*Waves at mouse.*Waves at mouse.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-53679929770739789282013-10-01T15:42:19.907-06:002013-10-01T15:42:19.907-06:00Very well said. Very well said. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-15709465104271145032013-10-01T14:00:16.862-06:002013-10-01T14:00:16.862-06:00Yes. That's all. Just yes.Yes. That's all. Just yes. mousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17837530120535693314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-25449802518335192162013-09-30T12:42:18.381-06:002013-09-30T12:42:18.381-06:00Giles,
Oh how very right you are....Giles,<br />Oh how very right you are....Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-27469368072770811772013-09-30T12:37:54.571-06:002013-09-30T12:37:54.571-06:00Thank you Roz!
I think that we sometimes struggle...Thank you Roz!<br /><br />I think that we sometimes struggle so much with adapting to the reality, that we kind of can miss how wonderful the reality is...Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-72309526957584628562013-09-30T12:34:01.827-06:002013-09-30T12:34:01.827-06:00Subrina,
This has been sitting in my drafts for a ...Subrina,<br />This has been sitting in my drafts for a while. Now I have to come on over and read your blog!<br /><br />Sometimes it's easier to see that we do things when we get a glimpse of it from another perspective. I think that the realization in itself is an important step.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-88330911739110843202013-09-30T12:30:38.928-06:002013-09-30T12:30:38.928-06:00Misty,
Lol, thank you. You are entirely too kind.
...Misty,<br />Lol, thank you. You are entirely too kind.<br /><br />And I do think that it is possible to want to change one's mind, but continue to explore beyond that feeling.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-64368690916132216632013-09-30T12:15:33.119-06:002013-09-30T12:15:33.119-06:00*Waves at mamacrow.*Waves at mamacrow.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-4378446191988550232013-09-30T12:15:00.147-06:002013-09-30T12:15:00.147-06:00tori,
language excused lol. Glad to hear it--fell ...tori,<br />language excused lol. Glad to hear it--fell into a major inspiration slump lately myself. I think that one of mouse's recent blogs inspired me out of it.<br /><br />Hmm, I hadn't really thought about it in the context of starting out as D/s. That makes sense because no matter how we start, it really is a huge adjustment.<br /><br />Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-86815639568605457782013-09-30T12:11:53.521-06:002013-09-30T12:11:53.521-06:00Aurora,
Interesting how difficult it is to pinpoin...Aurora,<br />Interesting how difficult it is to pinpoint the exact moment when things turn around like that!<br /><br />Fantasy is awesome, but ultimately, reality will always be better because we can actually live it.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-61357002051977167692013-09-30T12:09:44.900-06:002013-09-30T12:09:44.900-06:00cd,
Thank you!
Nice to see you drop by.cd,<br />Thank you!<br />Nice to see you drop by.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-15508456431641909022013-09-30T12:09:03.790-06:002013-09-30T12:09:03.790-06:00Sarah,
Oh no, you should totally finish it!
I thi...Sarah,<br />Oh no, you should totally finish it!<br /><br />I think that the novelty is much like the honeymoon phase of a relationship...Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-80824848181610388682013-09-30T12:05:58.997-06:002013-09-30T12:05:58.997-06:00sunnygirl,
LOL!
Oh yes, fantasies are awesome.......sunnygirl,<br />LOL! <br />Oh yes, fantasies are awesome....Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-11912184879029755652013-09-30T12:04:51.553-06:002013-09-30T12:04:51.553-06:00gg,
Exactly!
And that's pretty much how it so...gg,<br />Exactly! <br />And that's pretty much how it sounds in my head too...Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-62495083122317391882013-09-30T12:04:10.610-06:002013-09-30T12:04:10.610-06:00ksst,
oh yes, those moments...ksst,<br />oh yes, those moments...Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-72675066633643607282013-09-30T12:03:49.518-06:002013-09-30T12:03:49.518-06:00Thank you, Daisy.Thank you, Daisy.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-78961003650486623572013-09-30T04:34:50.621-06:002013-09-30T04:34:50.621-06:00Yes! But that next level of loss of control is a m...Yes! But that next level of loss of control is a massive turn on.Giles Englishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06078027627281038866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-70700162676791107382013-09-30T03:55:15.909-06:002013-09-30T03:55:15.909-06:00Fantastic post Lil, and well written. You are defi...Fantastic post Lil, and well written. You are definitely not the only one to experience this!<br /><br />It can so hard when the fantasy becomes reality, especially when the reality doesn't quite match the fantasy in your head. You are so right too. There is no greater confidence killer for a Dominant than being told he is doing it wrong. <br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-382099240436406942013-09-29T22:29:49.872-06:002013-09-29T22:29:49.872-06:00WOW lil!!!
This is an amazing post and I am embar...WOW lil!!!<br /><br />This is an amazing post and I am embarrassed to admit that I am guilty of this. I'm also wondering if you read my blog and then posted this?? lol I totally felt like you were talking directly to me. This isn't for the weak or faint at heart. And I'm sooo nervous that I'm not going to be able to do this. <br /><br />"But when someone has asked you to explore a new path, to express repressed parts of yourself, to lead in a whole new way, there is no confidence killer quite like consistent criticisms of doing it wrong. Especially when they come from the person who asked for it all in the first place."<br /><br />That was really hard to read. I do this! :( OMG what an eye opener. Thank you so much for this post. You really have made me see things differently. Still not sure this is going to work for us, or that I am capable of doing this....but I sure am going to try! Thanks again!<br /><br />subrina <3His_Subrinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10324900827603758904noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-55499648625897196462013-09-29T19:10:25.518-06:002013-09-29T19:10:25.518-06:00This post is further proof, as if we needed more, ...This post is further proof, as if we needed more, that you need to write a book.<br /><br />This is one of my fears; to find out I didn't want this all along. I question why I believe I will be not be that girl that changed her mind. Truth is, I got nothin'. I can only hope...Mistyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07931554793023459482noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-43075577544366164592013-09-29T15:54:11.979-06:002013-09-29T15:54:11.979-06:00oh yes this. yes indeedy.oh yes this. yes indeedy.mamacrowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16484565827023574347noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-17790121159693461582013-09-29T14:40:30.997-06:002013-09-29T14:40:30.997-06:00I loved this lil...so much its given me inspiratio...I loved this lil...so much its given me inspiration..fuck knows i need it..excuse my language.<br /><br />It made me reflect on how difficult it was for me in the beginning with Master, because although we started as D/s i really was not as prepared as i thought i was when i asked him for enslavement....so its not just those going from vanilla to D/s.<br /><br />xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.com