tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post8661493010801119439..comments2023-12-14T00:26:40.462-07:00Comments on Submissive Sanctuary: That Feeling of Being, Known as SurrenderStormhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comBlogger26125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-76841902391987192872013-03-12T08:40:10.116-06:002013-03-12T08:40:10.116-06:00Anon,
thank you--it's always nice to hear when...Anon,<br />thank you--it's always nice to hear when someone appreciates a post.<br /><br />I think that we sometimes mistake submission for surrender, but the mindset of each is quite different (even thought they do play nicely together).<br /><br />It is well worht reaching for the point of surrender though.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-74905785778325333482013-03-12T07:23:07.704-06:002013-03-12T07:23:07.704-06:00This is a great post... My naughty girl and I have...This is a great post... My naughty girl and I have engaged in d/s for quite some time, but when I can get her past the point of submission to the point of surrender, it is a powerful experience for both of us. Usually, anal is the best way for us to get there. In fact, we only use anal activity for d/s. Because she doesn't do it regularly, it is a powerful act of submission for her to trust me enough to ask for it, and I work very hard to take her past the point of submitting to the point of truly surrendering to me and what I'm doing. It takes an intense amount of concentration, but it is one of the most rewarding experiences I've had in d/s. I can actually see it when she reaches that point. It still hurts, but she gets to a point where she WANTS it to hurt, and takes genuine, passionate pleasure in what she is feeling, what I am doing, and what she has submitted herself to. I love doing it to her, and she loves when we do it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-66492247880590104802012-07-21T11:56:41.140-06:002012-07-21T11:56:41.140-06:00annalisa,
you are quite welcome, and thank you--In...annalisa,<br />you are quite welcome, and thank you--Inspiration isone of my very favorite things.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-85000633664650271392012-07-20T20:53:46.986-06:002012-07-20T20:53:46.986-06:00Excellent post. I never thought of it that way, b...Excellent post. I never thought of it that way, but it makes so much sense. I am inspired....Thank you!<br /><br />AnnaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-71230645740954847892012-07-09T20:30:29.755-06:002012-07-09T20:30:29.755-06:00BleuAme,
Thank you. It has taken me a ridiculously...BleuAme,<br />Thank you. It has taken me a ridiculously long time to realize that there is a difference between submission and surrender. But I do think that, ideally, they are both important parts of a whole.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-83148697641950747752012-07-09T20:28:38.492-06:002012-07-09T20:28:38.492-06:00Mindset, thank you.Mindset, thank you.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-28349235579225443452012-07-09T20:28:21.814-06:002012-07-09T20:28:21.814-06:00Thank you aisha. I'll play and bend the rules!...Thank you aisha. I'll play and bend the rules!Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-5455173412298025942012-07-09T20:27:28.709-06:002012-07-09T20:27:28.709-06:00Conina,
I think that we get so used to avoiding su...Conina,<br />I think that we get so used to avoiding surrender that fighting it can become second nature and comes naturally. Sometimes just taking a step back and realizing that we need to let go makes a huge difference.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-83648334574053990032012-07-09T20:25:52.358-06:002012-07-09T20:25:52.358-06:00Thank you reneerose.Thank you reneerose.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-3908065036672741482012-07-09T20:25:36.044-06:002012-07-09T20:25:36.044-06:00FA,
Ooh, I don't often get called a genius wit...FA,<br />Ooh, I don't often get called a genius without a hint of sarcasm!<br />Thank you and yvw.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-79366292875109233832012-07-09T20:24:39.984-06:002012-07-09T20:24:39.984-06:00tori,
that does make sense.
And it is slow progre...tori,<br />that does make sense. <br />And it is slow progress isn't it? Sometimes I feel like a snail on the highway lol.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-74814125304628878072012-07-09T20:23:17.938-06:002012-07-09T20:23:17.938-06:00faerie,
always happy to oblige lol. I think I frie...faerie,<br />always happy to oblige lol. I think I fried so many brain cells with the 100 things, that I don't have many left to lose.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-83359155923920652862012-07-09T20:22:01.063-06:002012-07-09T20:22:01.063-06:00Sir J,
Thank you!Sir J,<br />Thank you!Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-77236100028373344512012-07-09T20:20:56.396-06:002012-07-09T20:20:56.396-06:00sunnygirl,
Thank you. This comment made me smile a...sunnygirl,<br />Thank you. This comment made me smile all morning.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-19045244359987534872012-07-09T20:17:48.955-06:002012-07-09T20:17:48.955-06:00Kitty,
Glad it made sense for you!
I think that w...Kitty,<br />Glad it made sense for you! <br />I think that walls come in so many layers that sometimes we think we have taken them all down, then we realize that it was just the outer barricade and there's more beneath it.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-34779311530876284002012-07-09T10:44:23.777-06:002012-07-09T10:44:23.777-06:00Sometimes, I feel that surrendering is the destina...Sometimes, I feel that surrendering is the destination, of where the little by little actions of submission will lead. Beautiful piece :o)Bleue D'âmehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12945301989408243513noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-66574862061105421472012-07-09T07:24:31.996-06:002012-07-09T07:24:31.996-06:00Well put.Well put.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-74065628683942892092012-07-09T05:45:00.388-06:002012-07-09T05:45:00.388-06:00Hey, Lil,
I just dinged you for the One Lovely Bl...Hey, Lil,<br /><br />I just dinged you for the One Lovely Blog Award ~ if you've already played, or if you don't want to, feel free to ignore this...<br /><br />aishaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-44439370074654045992012-07-08T21:55:26.496-06:002012-07-08T21:55:26.496-06:00Submission without surrender is fine as far as it ...Submission without surrender is fine as far as it goes.<br /><br />But when you're seeking that soft calm place, the surrender is absolutely necessary. Sometimes I feel myself fighting it and I have to just let go. There's some power in that act too.Coninahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12267844904414770524noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-15975143491304983812012-07-08T15:24:07.335-06:002012-07-08T15:24:07.335-06:00Lovely post and thoughts.Lovely post and thoughts.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04842027321593278610noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-22641158705130062822012-07-08T14:10:41.902-06:002012-07-08T14:10:41.902-06:00The day will come, hopefully, when I will be able ...The day will come, hopefully, when I will be able to surrender my all too. Circumstances don't permit this for now. But I gladly give him everything that I am able to, for now. <br /><br />you are a genius! thanks for this post.Fondleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03538688586112598309noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-16069541309658670892012-07-08T12:23:28.605-06:002012-07-08T12:23:28.605-06:00Yep you do put things so well.
I think i find wit...Yep you do put things so well.<br /><br />I think i find with surrendering is that its something that just happens as in it is a natural flow without it actually sometimes being realised thats whats happening whereas with submitting its more focused....not sure that makes sense.<br /><br />I liken surrendering to the process of enslavement where it goes beyond the act of submitting, slowly bit by bit the submissive is giving more and more of all of her way beyond physical demonstrations of submission, and its slow progress.<br /><br />tori xtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-85068748871358629232012-07-08T10:35:26.787-06:002012-07-08T10:35:26.787-06:00I love how you are able to so eloquently voice the...I love how you are able to so eloquently voice the things that swirl around in my head :) Thanks for saving me a few brain cells, lol.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-91946408418388241432012-07-08T09:55:17.237-06:002012-07-08T09:55:17.237-06:00very well said.very well said.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6393795333438979432.post-70390789304782406032012-07-08T09:50:45.307-06:002012-07-08T09:50:45.307-06:00WOW, this is so insightful. You are a powerful th...WOW, this is so insightful. You are a powerful thinker and writer and you make me see things I don't necessarily want to see and know. Thanks for getting me to the point that I, at least, want to start to acknowledge.Aimless Ramblinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00720714875762344391noreply@blogger.com