Submissive Sanctuary

Several people were kind enough to give me post fodder. Yay! See? I'm not really as difficult as he likes me out to be. Now's my...

I think that I finally managed to perfect the nonsensical title. Here's where I'm going--the concept of M/s being "better...

A while back tori put forth a topic which has kind of been floating around in the recesses of my mind, and I wanted to bring it out to play....

Courtesy of Q & A month... Why is submitting so flippin difficult? Thank you tori. Okay, so I took some liberties with the phrasing. Co...

I got such a great series of ideas in the comments on my last post, I now think that I have inspiration enough to pull me through for a whil...

I smarted off, which in retrospect, wasn't actually that smart. That is how I ended up face down on the floor, with my ass in the air, w...

He brought me roses the other night. I know that some people think roses are cliche, but I absolutely love them. I had had a crappy day, an...

I have started to wonder if what I have seen as a lack of inspiration, is actually just a shift in my perception about submission. I have a...

I often think that we are pretty tame--in the lighter end of the spectrum of ttwd perhaps. I sometimes complain about his expectations, and...

I swear that there's a post very similar to this floating around here already...Hopefully my thoughts have evolved somewhat. I'm not...

In the context of a committed relationship especially, all limits are those of the Dominant. It took me years to adapt to that perspective, ...

Been thinking again, so I got another ADD post here. I think.... From my observations, to one extent or another, submissives all experienc...

We humans tend to be quite reward oriented, which in itself is not necessarily a bad thing. It seems to me, that the problem with this atta...

After my whole little identity crisis a while back, I did what any codependent normal woman would do--I asked Alpha what I am. See, I get ...

I use the term "My submission" fairly often. But while I do tend to phrase it that way, I have learned that it's not mine. It ...

I while back, I read a post over on Kitty's blog , about the art of submission and other things (hi Kitty). But what got me going was t...

It surprises me that most of my Google hits come from the search term "submissive." Shouldn't really be a newsflash right? I m...

This post started at the end of Preconceived Notions . But for once, I decided to make an attempt at separating two different subjects. So...

I've been thinking again ( I know, dangerous stuff)...Anyways, these concepts are not about the Dom someone met last week or the fledgli...

Surrender...Not obedience, not service, not compliance... I think that, idealy, submission leads to surrender and the two become one deeply...