Submissive Sanctuary

I occasionally get emails from new subs asking for advice. The one thread that all my responses seem to have in common, is the assertion tha...

Life around here has looked something like this lately: One of the things that delighted me most when we discovered ttwd, was the disc...

Occasionally I find myself in a bit of a quandary (yes, I said occasionally. Go ahead, finish snorting your coffee and have a good laugh. I ...

There's nothing quite like the click as a knife snaps open. No matter where we are or what we are doing, that sound always brings me up ...

Ironically, I am discovering that letting go is an act of will. In that moment when I begin to feel myself fighting, I make myself...Not. I ...

Surrender. I have decided I like that word. When I went to bed the other night, I was thinking about the concept of surrender. To surr...

Forty swats with the riding crop and I was done. Melted. Placed squarely back...in my place. Begging to know how to be where I belong and ho...

We were curled up in bed last night and I was thinking about how much I love that feeling--those times when we become closer than our skin w...

We were curled up in bed last night. I was craving that particular mixture of Dominance and tenderness. And I couldn't say it, I couldn...

 While I do have physical cravings, for the most part, I crave things that have very little to do with physical interactions. True, there...

Being silent or doing nothing are not the same things as being still. Being physically still is not the same as stillness of being. Life is...

You hear a lot about the physical aspects of D/s and BDSM (or whatever the hell you feel like calling it, I'm not feeling to particular ...

I'm an attention whore and I quit denying it some time ago. Last night I was a bit put out because Alpha had spent most of His day doing...

Life has really started hauling me around by my ears lately and the hits just keep on coming so I could be here just do bitch this morning l...

Bring me up short make me... stop take a moment breathe a breath climb inside my head hear the words unsaid. i know i'm fighting you ye...

Okay, so the funny thing about being submissive is you're not the one who gets to choose when to submit. Imagine that lol. i have been t...

Talking with myself yesterday about my issues brought up another issue. Well, not so much an issue as a fantasy that's probably a really...