So, Misty was kind enough to offer me some writing fodder, and asked if I preferred anticipation or surprise, or if my preferences were situation dependent.
Hmmmm...It's kind of situation dependent.
I mean, in the moment, I love anticipation. If it's more of a long term thing, like say, hours (Iknowlol), I'm not a big fan.
I kind of like not knowing what's coming. In the moment, there's nothing quite as hot as waiting for...Odd for me, I suppose, since patience isn't my strong point, but this kind of waiting isn't optional, and that lack of options is hot too--knowing something is coming and there's not a damn thing I can do about it.
Surprise though...Dunno, it feeds that part of me that gets off on the rush, that little fear junky who needs her fix...Surprises can be so deliciously scary...Yea, I like surprises too. Just not so much in day-to-day life. I prefer my surprises to be confined to D/s stuff.
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