Saturday, June 8, 2013

Terrible with Titles

I think that I might be slowly working my way back to the land of the living. Perhaps I will even be counted among the sane soon! Well, maybe...

I have to say, there are occasional moments in life when I resent his ownership. None of them have held a candle to this week though.

Apparently, it is completely possible to make someone give up an addiction. For a pig-headed, overbearing, stubborn, and completely unreasonable Dominant anyways.

Hmmm, Maybe I was giving myself a bit too much credit in my opening paragraph...

Anyways, this post has been knocking around in the drafts folder for some time, and no matter how hard I try, I cannot seem to to wrap the thought up with a neat little bow...

There is a slight chance that this post might all tie together though!
One thing that I occasionally find myself struggling with, (yes, I said one. Oh hush) is that I have always believed that one must do things out of a sense of personal motivation, and that success is dependent on an inner desire for oneself--not outside forces.

In a way, that view is compatible with D/s. And in a way, it is quite contrary.
I realize that those are opposing views, but I don't think that fact negates them.

I found a thought that seems to clear up many of my self- created, over-thinking, obsessive issues that revolve around this particular subject...


  1. Your title made me laugh - sometimes I see a title on my blog that I don't remember writing, so I go look at it, and I think - what? What did that have to do with anything?

    That is a lovely quote at the end. (But hard to do when you don't feel the point.)

    1. Kitty,
      I have such a terrible time coming up with titles!

      It is, as you say, a lovely quote that can be difficult to live. I have this feeling that there was a thought in this post that I just never could complete!

  2. I really like that - i've gone round and round in my head about that too - in this context and in others in fact. so thank you.

    1. gg,
      I have been saving that one for a while. Glad you liked it.

  3. That quote pretty much sums it up...its just hard to rationalise that concept with D/s at times, it is very much ebb and flow, working together for a commmon goal....just sometimes it feels like that our goals are in different places or distances...

    now im not even sure that makes sense lol


    1. tori,
      some days I have a hard time rationalizing any concepts...Especially lately...

      See, you made more sense than I did! lol.

  4. Wow!! Never thought of life that way. I guess in any kind of marriage these words would work. But I see it really as part of a D/s relationship. Thanks for sharing

  5. Wow, I love this Lil, I haven't really thought about it in that way either so thank you for sharing. Both compatible and contradictory. I love the quote!


    1. Roz,
      glad you liked it.
      Sometimes i have no problems breezing though compatible/contradictory thoughts, and others I just obsess about them until nothing makes sense...

  6. That quote was perfect. Not only can we apply it to certain relationships but how we live as humanity!

    1. Minelle,
      the world would probably be a much nicer place wouldn't it?


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