Monday, March 9, 2015

A Question of Specifics in the Ultimate Sexual Fantasy

Sub hub in phx asked, "What are some of the specific things that you would include in your ultimate sexual fantasy?"

Ack. Nothing against the questioner, but I hate this question.

This is probably a pretty accurate picture of my face when I read it:

Yep that's me. The dog, not the fish.

*Watches the grass grow while crickets chirp uncomfortably*

These days, my ultimate sexual fantasy can pretty much be summed up by saying having the actual desire for sex, being alone with him for an entire night, and not having a headache. It's a lot to ask, I know.

But that wasn't really what you wanted to hear, was it?

Lets see how vague of answer is possible for such a specific question, shall we? Yes, let's. Lol.

Well...There would be humiliation. And control. Lots of control. There would be more than one man, and I would serve at Alpha's demand because that's what makes the fantasy attractive to me, what makes it somewhat acceptable in the recesses of my mind.
For me, his control is the only truly specific part of this fantasy. The situation is entirely controlled by him and continues through only at his direction. I am willing to acknowledge that this is due, in no small part, to the fact that him controlling every aspect in this fantasy is what makes me even remotely  okay with having it in the first place. There is, however, no denying the turn-on of the particular setting of this fantasy.

Of course, it's always worth remembering that the glorious thing about fantasies is that it doesn't really matter if one could actually cope with them in reality--that's why we call them fantasies.

So there you have it, "some" details!

Next up: Famous person I would like to be friends with...In which I admit that I failed to answer the question. It's sure to be a winner of a post!


  1. Heretofore known as, "that catfish and crickets fantasy thing"...

    1. Jz,
      You know what's even more awesome? Hopefully I will get hits for that sentence of yours, and it will be totally awesome. For me. Not the poor unfortunate souls who end up here because of it. We can't all win all of the time though!

  2. Love tge comment from Jz, hilarious! Ah yes ... humiliation, control and another man ... Mmm


    1. Roz,
      Me too! As I said, I can only hope that an unfortunate soul or two will find their way here because of her comment. For posterity's sake, of course.

      And, another...Or two...Ahem.


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