Monday, January 28, 2013

The Problem Comes Not in the Asking, But in the Receiving

Several months ago, I put in a request for more control.
As is his way, he pretty much ignored the request and set in on some back burner in his mind where he lets things simmer until I go to stir the pot again and get burnt.

The other morning, he said, "I should start making you get up an hour early every morning to make me coffee and suck my cock until I cum down your throat. After all, you wanted more control."

*Ack!* (I know that's not really a word, but it's the best one I could invent to sum up what went through my mind).

I am so not a morning person (just in case no one noticed).
I don't want to give up that first cup of coffee. I don't want to suck on anything besides that coffee. And really, I just want to grumble my way through the first daylight hour in relative peace.

This post isn't increasing my chances of winning that "Submissive of the year" award is it?
Maybe next year?

You can ask, and you might even receive. But what you get won't necessarily come in the form of whatever preconceived notion you had about the results of your request.
I know that.
But I really thought my ideas were better. I still like them more lol.
I do know though...

So what does one do when they are faced with getting what they asked for in a form they don't want? I'm thinking desperately hope that it takes a different form than the aforementioned one, and perhaps gaze longingly at that first cup of coffee and suck up other things.


  1. You know, I'm quite sure it's a scientifically proven fact that grogginess and no caffeine greatly reduce tooth control...

    just something you might want to toss out there if things get desperate enough...!

    1. Jz,
      Ooh, I should have known I could never beat him at the logic game...I think I'm going to abandon logic and switch to science!

      I'll keep this one on reserve lol.

  2. LOL- that happens to me too. Ask and ye shall receive. Giggle.

    1. ksst,
      see! All this crap about sharing my needs and wants...It's just a trap! Lol.

  3. There's always that chance that you may get what you ask for which is why it is so important to make sure you really "use your words". lol

    1. sunnygirl,
      lol, like don't tell the universe you don't want to go to work tomorrow because then you get fired by text for not correctly phrasing the request?

  4. Oh my goodness, that happens quite frequently to me too. Perhaps over time you might actually come to like it?

    1. Senator,
      if it does happen, I sincerely hope I do lol.

  5. Oh lil: I sympathize with your predicament but as the others have said, it happens! And it happens with us, in our household too ;p Looks like there is lots of good company to be in with this one.

    I do think its especially evil to make one who isn't a morning person take in evidence of the morning...but what can I do I asked.
    Erhm...I mean, you asked :P :o)

    1. Bleuame,
      well, no one likes to enjoy their predicaments alone...

      lmao--so it's really your fault because you asked before I did!
      (I'm hoping that sentence reads like it was meant, not as some gibberish laden insult)

    2. LOL! Yes, next time please ask before I do ---that way I may think twice about it :P:P:P
      I haven't blogged about the one day of the week I greet the dawn..might be coming :D xx

  6. oh um yeah i would not be too thrilled at being woken up for that lol

    I know if he did i would submit to it but i genuinely would not be happy because like yourself im not a morning person.

    I wander if this is just another example of how they think differently from us, what you mean and want by him exerting more control is different from how he means and wants?

    good luck lol


    1. tori,
      I like to think that he won't do it because of that genuine unhappiness...

      I guess it would be no fun if they didn't think differently...Still though! Lol.


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