Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Possessive Terms

Thoughts. Words.
The ones I love so much...

Breathe.
Whore.
Cum.
Good girl.

"Breathe for me."
"My whore."
"Cum for me."
"My good girl."

The possessive context changes all those words. It takes them from something mildly hot, to a level of knee melting that is far beyond what those words do without the possessive terms.

"Breathe for me."

Breath is the base-point of life. When he controls my breathing, he controls everything else that goes along with it.
And when there's pain, or something just becomes to much and he tells me to breathe for him. That's all I need.
It's not just the basic command to breathe--a necessity for continuation of life. It's doing so for him. Because he tells me to.
Being told to breathe is like being told to be alive. To relax in the moment and accept that whatever will be will be.

"My whore."

The term "whore" implies that someone is payed for being sexually promiscuous. So technically, I don't really fit the category. But when he adds the "my", everything changes. Because I am...For him. And I get a great deal of reward out of it.

"Cum for me."

That statement makes it about him. Doing it not for myself, but for him. And somehow that makes a huge difference. I guess it's kind of like the whole "Don't Dominate me because I want you to" bit. Make me beg for what I want then give it to me because it's what you want concept.

"My good girl."

Okay, that one's awesome in any context. With or without the "my". It's like sub crack-- I will go to extremes and endure things only to please. Because in the end, my fix will be waiting for me.

Yea... Breath for me and good girl. If I only got to hear five words for the rest of my life, those would suit me just fine.

22 comments:

  1. Absolutely - mine - the words i need to hear, will never tire of hearing: you are mine.

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    1. gg,
      I had that in there...At some point it got deleted because I got so caught up in the variations lol.
      And it is a lovely sentence isn't it? Almost like peacefulness in a bottle.

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  2. Love these words apart from my whore it just doesnt sit right with me and makes me uncomfortable because yes of what it actually means but yet slut doesnt bother me at all! its interesting how certain words trigger different meanings for people.

    My favourite though is simply "mine".

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    1. tori,
      Tomorrow I'll do my take on the whole slut/whore bit lol. "Whore" by itself doesn't really get me going that much, but "I own you whore" Oy, for some reason I like it lots lol.

      I agree--it is interesting how different words and different contexts make such a huge difference.

      And I don't think it's possible to go wrong with "mine"!

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  3. If Master someday decides to pay my rent, then he can call me his whore, with no complaint from me.

    Until then, a woman who has sex with only one man being called a slut or whore is absurd, and annoys me to no end and totally turns me off.

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    1. tlklish,
      Alpha took complete financial care of me for 12 years, so no complaints here. Though even if he hadn't, I don't think I would feel differently about it.

      I am curious--would your view of it as being absurd and annoying when directed at any woman change if he payed your rent and you felt alright with him calling you that?
      And does context change your view on it at all, like "attention whore"?

      I don't want to give a very extensive reply to this because it inspired tomorrow's post.

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  4. "Mine!" is my absolute favorite, exclamation and all. Best when being wrapped in a whole body hug or having something particularly invasive visited upon me.

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    1. Conina, yes. Anything that has that word in it directed from him to me is good. And it is lovely on it's own.

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    2. Oh, I simply adore it when BIKSS randomly pulls me close and announces "mine!"

      we don't use Whore, but SLut / good girl / girl / little girl are all up for grabs.

      Not because of any particular connotation. but just cos we like SLUT better. =)

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    3. FA,
      Lol. I'm still working on exactly why I don't care if slut is prefaced with mine, but it changes the term whore so much!

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  5. Sir also calls me Whore and Slut and He is the only one i am happy to be called those things by. Prefix the Mine and i am just putty in his hands!

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    1. Joolz,
      Right. I do think that it matters quite a bit who is saying it. I wouldn't be too pleased if some random person walked up to me and called me a whore lol.

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  6. Add the possesive to any of those words and terms and I'm in sub heaven.

    I know you didn't intend this effect, but omg, lil...

    good girl = sub crack had me spitting coffee all over my desk. So, soo true!

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    1. Monkey,
      Oh I'm so glad you spit coffee all over your desk lol. I occasionally wonder if comparisons like that are exceptionally tasteless coming from me (given thing1 and all). But it's so fitting!
      And it was meant to be a bit humorous.

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  7. "Sub crack" <----Love that!!!!
    Delightfully delicious post :o)

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  8. BleuAme,
    It's really the most simple comparison I can think of. Though I could see how such a statement might not be appreciated if one lacks a certain type of humor lol.

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  9. My good girl would be at the top of my list. Mine, also.

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    1. reneerose,
      those words really are awesome.

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  10. Yes I agree good girl is one of my favorites!

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    1. trazuredpet,
      Best thing everrr.

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