Thing1 took babygirl back. It turned into one of those family-altering situations after which things will never be the same. I told thing1 I am done with her. Perhaps in a few years she will decide family is worth telling the truth for. Who knows. I will no longer make an exception for her regarding the type of people I am willing to have in my life. Nor will I compromise my belief in truth.
That aside, today is our eldest son's birthday. I told him that next year he'll be entering the double digits and he'll be old. Yea, he informed me just how ancient he thinks I am lol.
Alpha says that he feels the birth of our boys were both momentous events that helped lead us to where we are now (yea I know--no shit, right). Not just from the perspective as parents, but in taking the path we have with D/s.
And it's true. Those two events brought us together while I was at my most vulnerable. In ways I never could have previously conceived of.
It's a strange day today. But it's a birthday. So we will play chess, watch movies, and let the kiddo get away with everything short of murder for one day.
I'm working through a lot of jumbled thoughts surrounding ttwd. Maybe one day soon I'll be able to make them comprehensible lol.
Nine years ago today our first son was born. And that makes it a once in a lifetime event.
So all that other stuff? Can wait.