This one gets a whole post of its own because if anyone has any brilliant ideas, I want them lol.
"You said (waaaay back in your blog) that you used to love giving b.j.'s
but after you had kids, your gag reflex kicked in and it was harder for
you. How did you get over that gag reflex and get back to loving it? I
have a sensitive gag reflex and a really strong sense of smell - gets me
in trouble often....
s.t."
Okay, so technically, I haven't gotten over the gag reflex--I just discovered that I actually really like being choked with cock...
For me, there are two times when the gag reflex kicks in--when he's trying to rearrange my tonsils, and when he cums.
In case one...I find that if I focus on the mental aspects, and breath slowly, (when I can) it's easier to keep the gag reflex to a minimum. Though there does seem to be some attraction for him in making me choke and gag...
When he cums...For me, it's a consistency and taste issue. Mostly consistency. So I developed this odd little habit that has no basis in any proven theory, except that it (for some reason) works pretty well for the most part.
I focus my eyes on something specific--like a freckle on his thigh.
Yea, I'm serious. I know it sounds silly, but if I keep my eyes focused on that little freckle, or a particular shadow if it's dark, I can at least avoid the gag reflex until he's done.
I'm not really sure how I went from loving sucking cock, to hating it, and back to loving it.
I think that now I'm more comfortable with the submissive and control aspects of it, which makes it hot for me--he's taking what he wants regardless of my body's rebellion.
I still haven't gotten back to the point of swallowing which I find completely mystifying, because there was a time when it didn't bother me in the least...
I'm convinced they'd secretly all be disappointed if we stopped gagging.
ReplyDeleteI get praise for improvement, which only leads to him increasing whatever gag-inducing thing he's doing.
They Just Don't WANT Us to Stop!!
(and I'm with you on the cumming. That's why I learned to swallow. If we bypass as many tastebuds as possible, life is much easier.)
Jz,
DeleteLol. Personally, I don't feel all that attractive when close to puking, but it does seem to work for him!
Stopping is an option??
I have such a horrible gag reflex, that Master gets confused with how I can even eat or brush my teeth. Now I can sort of work past the gagging if I go slow, but he can't force my head down at all. What's worse is that his cock has a dramatic curve upward, so it usually rams right into my uvula and causes me to start gagging earlier than it probably would if it were straighter. I've gotten better at least, but it's still pretty horrible.
ReplyDeleteAlso, I actually like swallowing, and don't mind the taste or the consistency. It's one thing I've never really had to deal with working on.
Loki,
DeleteI actually seem to do better when he forces my head down...There seems to be varying degrees of gag reflex lol.
Ooooh.
ReplyDeleteI don't think there is any magical cure--its all what can work for you. However, I don't think its all mental, there can certainly be physical reasons for it but I do think the mentality can go a long way in getting around it ;o)
Bleuame,
DeleteI agree that there can be physical reasons, though mental activities seem to help a bit lol.
I read recently that folding one of your thumbs into your hand and making a fist around it with the rest of your fingers cuts off your gag reflex. My gag reflex got HORRIBLY sensitive in my last pregnancy, so I tried this and it worked a treat!
ReplyDeleteI was about to say I've always loved sucking and swallowing, but I was reading back in my blog archives the other day and found a post from a few years ago about how I was a bit ambivalent about that moment when it's been made clear you are going to have to swallow... How odd!
Mamacrow,
DeleteI wonder if the thumb in fist method has to do with pressure points, or if it's similar to my whole "freckle focusing" thing...
There's nothing like your thoughts in print to show you the errors of your memory!
Girls, if you're bugged by the taste, encourage your Master to feast on fresh pineapple regularly. Apparently this neutralises the taste of cum and makes it more pleasant for you.
ReplyDeleteI eat it a lot purely because I like it, and have had many compliments about my own taste being quite sweet. Seems it works for everyone. Worth a try perhaps?
Leah,
Deletefor me it's really mostly a consistency thing...
The gag reflex i find sometimes i struggle with and sometimes i dont, i dont know why that is so have no help.
ReplyDeleteI dont like the taste of cum so much so my preference is..cock shoved down my throat so it goes straight down thus avoiding the taste as much as possible.
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tori,
DeleteWhat kind of success do you think you'd have putting him on a pineapple diet? Lol. Personally, I'm allergic...
very little success, plus i cant stand the stuff either lol
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I never thought it was a choice ..to swallow or not.. silly me. As for the gag reflex.. well I like being forced so .. it is all good.
ReplyDeletenbs,
Deletelol--maybe it's not.
Interesting and useful information, lil. Joy seems to have arrived at approximately the same place where you are, though she skipped the part about where she never minded swallowing. It's always been and continues to be an effort for her.
ReplyDeleteFrequent practice seems to help, though. :-)
Jake,
DeleteYes, the idea that practice makes perfect, is strongly promoted around here lol.