This one gets a whole post of its own because if anyone has any brilliant ideas, I want them lol.
"You said (waaaay back in your blog) that you used to love giving b.j.'s
but after you had kids, your gag reflex kicked in and it was harder for
you. How did you get over that gag reflex and get back to loving it? I
have a sensitive gag reflex and a really strong sense of smell - gets me
in trouble often....
Okay, so technically, I haven't gotten over the gag reflex--I just discovered that I actually really like being choked with cock...
For me, there are two times when the gag reflex kicks in--when he's trying to rearrange my tonsils, and when he cums.
In case one...I find that if I focus on the mental aspects, and breath slowly, (when I can) it's easier to keep the gag reflex to a minimum. Though there does seem to be some attraction for him in making me choke and gag...
When he cums...For me, it's a consistency and taste issue. Mostly consistency. So I developed this odd little habit that has no basis in any proven theory, except that it (for some reason) works pretty well for the most part.
I focus my eyes on something specific--like a freckle on his thigh.
Yea, I'm serious. I know it sounds silly, but if I keep my eyes focused on that little freckle, or a particular shadow if it's dark, I can at least avoid the gag reflex until he's done.
I'm not really sure how I went from loving sucking cock, to hating it, and back to loving it.
I think that now I'm more comfortable with the submissive and control aspects of it, which makes it hot for me--he's taking what he wants regardless of my body's rebellion.
I still haven't gotten back to the point of swallowing which I find completely mystifying, because there was a time when it didn't bother me in the least...