Tuesday, March 18, 2014

Q & A--Alpha's Turn

From Misty:
Did you ever struggle with inflicting pain on lil? If so, did that just take time to change? Was there something lil did that helped you move past that...you know, besides how her body reacted to it? 
It is still a struggle, realizing that her need to be in her place far overwhelms my squeamishness about the issue, and it is a constant struggle to find the line between too little, and too much. Sometimes her attitude just necessitates the use of pain...
But uh, you like it...
Well, yea. So my snark has actually been helpful! *Snort*, oh yes--after a certain amount of snark, it becomes quite pleasurable.
lil's commentary on this one ends here. Lol.

From blonde:
When did you realize that you and Lil would be together for the rest of your lives?
One night about fifteen years ago when we were sleeping out in the garden and we had a conversation about our future and having kids...Everything's worked out pretty much exactly like that too...
For me, that night is one of those memories that is kind of like a dream--I couldn't tell you exactly what we talked about, or pick out any specific moments, but I distinctly remember the feeling of being with him...Dunno, it was one of those nights that had magical/drug like qualities without the drugs.

And finally, what do you like most about Lil?
His response was exceptionally corny, but he refused to reconsider because I don't get to decide what he likes about me. Go figure. "The twinkle in her eyes." What can I say, he likes me happy. I would have thought that it would be my astounding wit or grabbable ass, but no....Alas, he wants me neither for my mind, or for my body.

From tori:
What pleases you the most about lil's submission?
Ooh, I like this one!
When it feels...Right. Like everything in the universe is right. There is equilibrium and it feels peaceful.
I would say that he skirted the issue--this really gives me nothing to go on.


  1. Enjoyed reading this Lil, great to hear Alpha's pov. Lol at the first question ... I think you were wise to end your commentary where you did lol. "The twinkle in her eyes" ... I loved that answer and your conversation sleeping out in the garden sounded wonderful :)


    1. Roz,
      Luckily for me, he has a sense of humor!

      Glad to hear that you enjoyed the post.

  2. Thanks Alpha for your answers. As for the last response lil, I think he just wants to keep you on our toes, both literally and figuratively. :)

    1. sunnygirl,
      thank you for reading!

      Oh yea, that's how it rolls around here--keep me on my toes just to "Accidentally" step on them. Uh huh.

  3. Maybe I need to practice my snark. Kidding, lol! I think Master struggles with it too (obviously, or I wouldn't have asked). I know he enjoys it yet he says he doesn't want to hurt me--very confusing.

    Thanks for batting your eyes to get these answers. I find it amusing that men can answer a question with few words while it takes me a whole page lol

    1. Lol, Misty!
      I do apologize for distracting him with my snark.

      In the beginning, I was more comfortable receiving pain than he was dishing it out. He always said that he fed on my getting off on it--kind of a cyclical thing. So, personally, I would say that being expressive with the pleasure that pain can bring, was helpful.

  4. Im so behind in catching up on blogs.

    OOh he was quite evasive here wasnt he? lol


    1. tori,
      it takes a while when one hasn't been around much, doesn't it?

      *Sigh, yes--he's generally like that. And here I thought I'd get something concrete out of his response to this one...Lol.


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